How a Loyalty Test Works

A loyalty test is a planned, in-person interaction designed to document how your partner responds when approached by another person. You choose the boundaries, and we document what happens.

01. Tell Us What You Want Tested

Describe your situation and select the relationship boundaries that matter to you. These may include whether your partner claims to be single, engages in flirting, exchanges contact information, shares social media, or agrees to meet again.

You will also provide the information needed to identify your partner and suggest an appropriate public location and time.

02. Review and Plan the Interaction

Every request is reviewed for safety, feasibility, and compliance with local requirements. If the request can be accepted, the interaction is planned for an appropriate public setting.

You and the tester agree on which boundaries may be tested. Testers will not trespass, enter private residences, access private devices, follow someone continuously, or initiate physical contact.

03. Conduct the Loyalty Test

At the agreed time and location, a local tester approaches your partner and begins a natural conversation. The tester may flirt, ask whether your partner is single, request contact information, or suggest meeting again — depending on the boundaries you selected.

The tester observes and documents your partner's voluntary responses. The interaction ends immediately if the tester feels unsafe, your partner asks to be left alone, or the situation moves beyond the approved boundaries.

04. Receive a Confidential Report

After the interaction, you receive a private report describing what occurred. The report may include a timeline, the tester's observations, statements made during the conversation, and any messages or screenshots lawfully obtained during the interaction.

The report documents one interaction. It does not guarantee whether someone has cheated in the past or predict how they will behave in every future situation.

05. Decide What the Results Mean to You

We provide the documented account without deciding what you should do with your relationship. Every relationship has different agreements and boundaries.

You decide how the interaction fits within the expectations you and your partner established.